Are you a snooper?

Why do women snoop? Call it baggage or a woman's instinct, but I'm a guilty party. I don't know any woman who doesn't snoop through their man's stuff. I'm not speaking of everyday psycho stalker going through his voice mails, e-mails, address book, text messages, pockets, receipts, wallet, drawers etc..., but every once in awhile a peek here and a peek there. Granted if a man has been dishonest before then the urge increases. When infidelity occurs, psycho stalker snooping is generally an automatic response that can't be helped. This type of emotional turmoil can result in some serious mental illness and professional help should be sought. Trust me....been there....done that! (But almost always found evidence of my ex's multiple infidelities!)

For the general snoopers though, one might say that it symbolizes distrust. I don't necessarily think that's the case. It could be baggage, but personally, I'm just nosy. LOL I highly doubt Papa Bear would ever cheat on me. He's not that kind of guy and has enough problems with me. He doesn't need any more! :) One of the things I value most about my relationship with Papa Bear is I have never caught him in a lie. Sometimes he's too honest for his own damn good!

Men aren't always the best at communicating, especially emotions. If I find something handwritten of Papa Bear's, naturally I'm going to read it out of curiosity. He frowns upon this. Not because he's hiding something, rather because he thinks I'm not respecting his privacy. Give me a break! Didn't he realize he lost the gift of privacy the day he said I love you???

So here is something that challenges my beliefs. As I've mentioned previously, I'm a great preacher and a horrible practicer! Of course every human being on earth has the right to their own privacy. It is completely unfair and disrespectful not to grant them this God given right. I know this. I feel strongly about this. Yet...I still snoop. Shame on me!